It is known that love is not always mutual. Often the guy you like doesn’t show any interest in return. However, there are many ways to attract attention to yourself and even, perhaps, make love.
However, in these things you should not be hasty. You will not achieve reciprocal sympathy because of excessive shyness, therefore, if you really want to make a guy fall in love with yourself, you should at least temporarily learn to be proactive.
Recommendations of psychologists
It is unlikely that you can fall in love with a guy you like without having at least some exemplary knowledge in the field of male psychology. So we list a few of their inherent features that distinguish specialists in the field of relationships.
- Many men do not always understand the hints of girls. Their intuition works differently. So maybe he will respond to your attention signs when they become more obvious to him;
- To fall in love with yourself, you need to know the object of sympathy. It should clarify the interests and tastes of the young man and try to follow them. For example, if your chosen one prefers brunettes, and you are a sultry blonde, you can even think about changing your usual appearance;
- The best way to start a relationship is to constantly communicate with each other. You can ask for help, implement any project. By the way, while working together, attachment arises, which can grow into a relationship;
- Psychologists recommend to attract attention by unobtrusively copying manners, gestures and facial expressions during communication. A very good way to get attention is the same shirt or T-shirt, which can be worn at the next meeting;
- Many fall in love with girls, admiring their talents. Praise for some merit, but do not overdo it, so as not to look stupid;
- As psychologists say, the most important thing is not to bother the young man with your presence. Everything should be done in moderation, because it is known that a man does not show interest in a woman who is too persistently imposed on him. Male psychology requires him to feel like a conqueror seeking a girl.
10 proven ways to fall in love
Motivate to start a relationship in different ways. So how to fall in love with a guy for sure? The ten most effective methods are listed below.
- The girl should take care of herself. A woman should not just be well-groomed, but also strive to match the tastes of the young person of interest. However, it must be borne in mind that too bright makeup and vulgar clothing can frighten you away.
- Be sporty. Many men like smart women who watch their figure. In addition, if he sees you in an open sports uniform, it is unlikely to leave you indifferent.
- It is important to be interesting. In order for the cavalier to pay attention to you, you need to stand out among others. Feel free to demonstrate talents, tell us about your interests.
- Show interest in the guy's activities. Go to the competition with his participation, show that the young man is interesting to you as a person. By the way, many relationships develop on the background of joint hobbies.
- Be tactful and moderate in communication. To make your relationship grow into something serious, and not limited to talking during random meetings, follow certain norms: you should not be too talkative or, on the contrary, be silent as partisans, do not allow excessive modesty as well as cheeky behavior.
- Do not show directly that you like a man, but do not express indifference. In a woman appreciate the naturalness. Communicate on equal terms and do not show that you are somehow dependent or want something from a young man.
- Hint that you have another. If the person you are interested in is already interested in you, but still hesitates in terms of a serious relationship, you can sometimes tell you that someone is already caring for you. Thinking that he lost you, the man is more likely to realize how much he likes you.
- Meet friends and relatives of men. If people from the environment will periodically talk to him about you, serious affection may develop from this.
- Use pickup methods: look into your eyes more often, hug you when you meet, copy gestures while talking, and so on.
- Make love to him. Of course, this is a rather controversial way, which does not always lead to the beginning of a long relationship. And you can also get a bad reputation. However, if everything is properly set up, for example, as spontaneous sex at a friendly party, then a gentleman, at least out of a sense of decency, will invite you on a date. But before that, you still need to be well acquainted with him.
Meet by correspondence
The first attempts to attract a guy girls usually begin through social networks. The advantages of this method are clear. In their accounts, people make all the information about themselves.
In the process of correspondence you can know each other well. Providing virtual signs of attention, being at home, is not so scary. By the way, you can order a professional photo session and put photos on the Internet. Beautiful images attract the opposite sex.
How to fall in love with a guy by correspondence at a distance? If you started a constant correspondence, then you should talk more about yourself and ask about your hobby.
Close acquaintance can develop into a good friendship. And as you know, there is no friendship between a man and a woman.
If you take the first step, acquaintance necessarily develops into a relationship.
Generally, strictly speaking, the correspondence should not last long. In a relationship, live communication is more important. Therefore, it is best to postpone the phone, close the laptop and go together, for example, to the rink. Who knows, maybe the next meeting will be held as a full date.
How to fall in love with a classmate
School years - this is the time of first love, timid kisses, jointly skipped lessons. At the age of 13-15 years, adolescents call girls for first dates. But how to make the young man you like invite exactly you? Here are tips: how to fall in love with a guy at school:
- To get started is to meet him. This is not a problem if the student is in the same class. But how to start a conversation with a high school student should think. Nowadays, it’s enough just to get in touch through the social network. You can simply write him "hello", send some interesting video or image. In the future, if you like him, he himself will begin to look for a reason to communicate;
- A very romantic act is to send the guy an anonymous note with confessions of sympathy. Give him some hint, tell your best friends about your act so that after a brief search he can find out who is giving him signs of attention;
- In adolescence, adult prejudices do not yet exist. If a girl likes a young man, there is nothing wrong with calling him for a walk or inviting him to the cinema. After several dates, he can even confess his love, if he does not do it earlier.
Most importantly - do not limit yourself to half hints, views, and some minor signs of sympathy. Often the girls, faced with a misunderstanding, begin to complex and worry that the guy did not like.
However, most likely, he simply did not pay attention to the hints. After all, even experienced adult men often miss such things.
How to make the former love you again
It is no secret that many relationships end in rupture. However, after a short break from each other, people who have cooled down after a quarrel will again have affection. Often girls are looking for ways to get their ex back.
To begin with, you should think again, and whether you need to restore the relationship again. And whether it will save them for a long time. Then be sure to analyze the causes of the past gap and work on the bugs.
You can start chatting again with the help of mutual friends. Friends will arrange a meeting, may even hint to the former that the separation was a mistake.
If a quarrel occurred because of some of your shortcomings, then you can simply correct, apologize, talk.
In any case, do not try to restore relationships through intrigue. No need for pretense and humiliation. Be natural, and when an opportunity presents itself, just tell the man directly that he is still not indifferent to you. Usually these words are the strongest. Or, at least, save respect from the former.
Use of love potions and love spells
Desperate women to get their beloved quite often resort to various occult practices. However, even if love magic actually exists, relationships built on a love spell are unlikely to end in something good.
On television, not once told about the terrible consequences of witchcraft. No wonder for many centuries it was all banned.
Therefore, it is best not to turn to spells, especially since the effectiveness of this practice has not yet been proven.
The influence of the zodiac sign on the character of a man
Learn about the nature of men can be on the sign of the zodiac. Even psychologists recognize that the date of birth plays a role in shaping a person’s personality. After all, many, reading about character traits inherent in the zodiac, begin to follow them on a subconscious level:
- male lions are rather vain, therefore they prefer brilliant women who need to be conquered with a large number of competitors;
- scorpions are usually attracted to complex conflicting personalities, female mysteries;
- Taurus must be sure of the absolute loyalty of his chosen one, to get this representative, you must be absolutely sincere and honest;
- Aries most often prefer bright girls who have many interests and various hobbies;
- for the sign of the virgin better fit-girl - honors, caring for their career;
- scales choose inquisitive women;
- Capricorns belong to the type of men who value initiative in women - before waiting for reciprocity, it’s better to invite a young man on a date;
- Aquarius, it is important that the woman was inspired by some high idea and was sacrificial, for example, they are attracted to helping homeless animals;
- the twins love signs of attention most of all, they are very persistent and need to be constantly together;
- the path to the heart of the archer lies through their love of changing places, invite the gentleman to the campaign and he will be at your feet;
- crayfish are modest, but they are strongly attached to their chosen one;
- Fish usually value romance to the extreme.
Studying the young man you like, you should not limit yourself to information about the sign of the zodiac, because all people are individual, despite some common features.
Signs that a guy is in love
It often happens that a guy already has certain feelings for a girl, but he is afraid to take a step towards her. However, the girl does not see signs of love in the behavior of the gentleman and is very upset.
In order not to make this mistake, one should remember several characteristic features of the behavior of the guy in whose heart the cherished feeling originated.
- The young man is worried, begins to commit stupid acts when meeting you. During the conversation, he can not find the right words, often blush;
- The boy in love will be looking for a meeting with you, but at the same time he may never decide to invite his beloved on a date;
- Another sign of love is an increased interest in you. If you find out that the guy learned something about you from acquaintances, it means that he likes you;
- The lover is always ready to help and tries to stay close.
What to do after you fall in love with a guy
So, you managed to evoke response feelings from your chosen one. However, at this stage the question may arise, and, in fact, what to do next. How to push the idea to start dating? And how to behave on a date?
Do not rush things. The guy himself will eventually decide to confess his feelings to you, especially since you have already given him enough hints confirming your sympathy.
If you don’t want to wait, you can directly ask him if you like me? Even the most modest young man in love will hardly answer this question in the negative. Then the question of a date will be resolved by itself.
When meeting you should behave as naturally as possible. No need to bother with some behavior patterns, but you can take into account a few mistakes, unfortunately, often made by women in relationships with men.
- No need to be too categorical and persevering. If a guy canceled a date, then he has good reasons for that. Roll up a scandal about this is not worth it;
- Keep yourself in hand, jealousy and tears repel guys;
- Do not be touchy: on the first date, let me give him a kiss, and in a couple of months you can think about more closeness.
Let's sum up
Real human feelings are so complex that it is simply not possible to describe them in a small article. But in relationships one can single out the most important rule - always be yourself in any situation. The best way to attract the guy you like is naturalness in dealing with him.
A few more tips are in the next video.
