Redemption can be carried out in different ways - with dances, tasks and money. The main thing is that the groom does not plan to avoid foreclosure and is not late. Below we have prepared cool contests for the bride to buy a bride, which we hope you will want to take note of.
Usually in the redemption there are monetary tasks or fines, and all the money collected is sent as a gift to the young. Thus, it is possible to verify not only the firmness of the groom’s intentions, but also his generosity.
"Why get married?"
At the entrance to the wall or in front of the entrance to a private house a daisy made of paper is attached, in which the petals can be easily torn off (lightly glue them or stick them on tape). On each petal is written one possible reason for the wedding:
- payment;
- love;
- need forces;
- friends advised;
- no clean clothes left;
- the cat no longer warms at night;
- the seller in the store already knows my favorite dumplings;
- friends no longer call for dinner - I eat everything;
- mother requires grandchildren, otherwise she will stop supplying pies;
- age is running out.
The bridesmaid offers the groom to tear off the petal and announce the official reason for the wedding. If the cause of the young guy is not satisfactory, he pays the appointed fine and tears the petals further.
"Hero"
Competition to test the strength of the groom and his friends. This competition has a deep history. Indeed, in jealousy, in order to pick up the bride, the betrothed had to cut a log on the way to her house.
Today more sophisticated methods can be used to test the groom's physical abilities. Fanta should be put into the bag with different tasks:
- nail in with one punch;
- lift the weight as much as possible;
- wring out 10 times;
- pick up my friend;
- break a string or rope;
- 10 times to jump on one leg;
- crouch 10 times on one leg;
- pick up the mother-in-law.
While the bridegroom is performing the assignments, the friends should laugh at him and shout: "Look, the groom holds the hammer for the first time," "Oh, it's hard for him," "Good for the groom!", "A good husband will be!".
The groom has the right to refuse to perform the task and pay for it or ask the friends to complete the task for him.
"Lips"
In advance it is necessary to prepare props: a big drawing paper on which different traces of lips are placed. To create props, you should walk in advance over the bridesmaids and ask them to kiss a piece of paper with painted lips.
To diversify the competition, relatives of the bride, her mom or sisters can kiss the leaf.
Well, to make it very difficult - ask for kiss paper and men. The task of the groom - to find the lips of his bride.
If he is mistaken, and the girlfriends must somehow mark the right lips for themselves in advance, then the friends will have to pay a ransom. Lipstick for kisses can be one or they can be different.
"Compote"
When entering the apartment or room, the groom is offered to refresh himself and put several cups of compote in front of him. It is important that the fruit is without berries. In one of the mugs in advance put carefully washed key from the front door or from the door to the bride's room.
If parents give an apartment to young people - this may be the key to their door. The groom must find the key after drinking all the compote.
In order to avoid further incidents, buddies can help the groom with the search and drink together or instead of him. Of course, an alternative option is a cash contribution to girlfriends, but more fun when the groom and his friends search for the key themselves.
Before the trip to the registry office, you should definitely give the groom and friends the opportunity to visit the toilet so that the further event will pass without incidents, and the mood will remain good.
"Power of love"
Props should be prepared in advance - a towel soaked in water. The girlfriends give the bridegroom a towel and say: "How much you love your bride, tighten the towel so much!" The groom tries as much as possible to tie a towel.
In this case, he can seek help from friends. Together they firmly tighten the towel and give it to the friends. Those inspect the towel and return it to the groom with the words: "Now untie him as quickly as you quickly put up with his wife during quarrels."
The groom is trying to quickly untie the towel, a comic situation arises and, most likely, he will have to pay off the annoying girlfriends with money.
"Call me"
On the door to the bride's room should hang a sheet of paper. But it should be made in the form of an advertisement - with several separate strips below. On the center of the paper there is an inscription - call me, and on vouchers - individual letters.
The groom should tear off each strip and on the letter indicated on it to call the bride as a tender name. You can not give the groom to think for more than 5 seconds to add some complexity to the task. If the groom does not have time, he must pay in money. Girlfriends open the door when all the leaves are torn off.
"Bargain"
If the bride has a brother, then this competition must be. Before the door to the bride’s chambers, a brother gets up and says to the approaching groom: “What have you come to?”. The groom explains why he came, and the brother says: "I am my sister bank, so that you turn the gate." The groom replies that the bride is already his, to which the brother offers to prove it to him.
The groom has to say various reasons that show that the bride already belongs to him by right: we love each other, we have a wedding and so on. Does the brother have to listen and ask the guests to believe the bridegroom?
"Dance"
Girlfriends prepare excerpts of musical works and write their name on the leaves. The leaves are folded into the bag, and the groom must pull out one of them. Having stretched the name of the dance and music, the friends and the groom should dance together. In case of refusal, friends get a ransom.
"An Apple"
A large solid apple is taken and matches are stuck into it, the more there are, the better. One of the matches should be broken so that it is smaller than the others. A girlfriend holds an apple so that the little match is hidden as far as possible.
The groom must pull the match until he pulls out the little one. For every long match - he must come up with a tender nickname to his bride or just give a compliment.
"Check for ingenuity"
This contest is designed to test the groom for ingenuity and eloquence. Random words are written on small sheets in advance: car, bird, roof, Egypt, window and others. All pieces of paper are placed in a box or bag.
As soon as the guests want to get into the house, the girlfriends offer their future spouse to pull pieces of paper out of the bag and make up the story from the words written on them. The story may be about the bride, about the future family life or relatives.
The more eloquent the guy turns out, the better, otherwise - a fine. The story can turn out whatever: by car we will rush to the registry office faster than a bird, and from the roof of our future house even Egypt will be visible, the house will be so high, etc.
"Fanta"
A young girlfriend with an empty container (a glass, a bowl, etc.) rises before the young, she also says forfeits that he should do: put what is rustling, what is ringing, spilling, etc. If the guy can not find a suitable object, the girlfriend suggests replacing him with something about rustling.
There can be quite a lot of fans, and they have to be complicated so that a decent amount will be collected at the end.
"Fishing"
After the guests get into the apartment after all, the young are brought to the locked room. The bride is in the room along with her grandmother and several girlfriends. Each has a rope or thread in his hands, the end of which sticks out from behind the door.
The future head of the family should pull the rope and pull the owner out of the room. If not the bride comes across, the penalty is paid and the rope again stretches. At the time of failure, the facilitator may say: "Get married or pay." The contest lasts until the guy finds his betrothed. Although it can choose a bride and girlfriend.
Cool competitions to buy a bride in verse
The more fun the ransom passes, the better. You can take the old rites as a script, where all contests are held in verse. It will be a little more difficult for girlfriends, because you have to learn everything, but positive emotions are guaranteed to all guests.
"Bouquet"
When the groom tries to enter the apartment, the girlfriend says:
"3 bunches with us.
Answer this hour,
Which one do you take, and what are your gifts? "
The girlfriend has 3 envelopes in her hands, each of which has a piece of paper with inscriptions: a broom, a birch broom for a bath and a bouquet.
The young one should choose one of the envelopes and get what was written from the bride's friends.
For example, he pulls the envelope with the word "broom", then the girlfriend again says:
"Something bad chose,
If you gave a broom as a gift,
It just doesn't work.
And you have to pay "
"Praise"
This contest is designed to make guests better acquainted and got to know the groom. Girlfriend appeals to his boyfriends and says:
"What guests are you silent?
Groom us praise "
Friends in response should tell everyone at least 10 of the good qualities of the groom, without repetition and how original you can. If the friends cannot name 10 qualities, they will have to pay.
This contest has a second option. The witness asks:
"Well, my friend, do not be silent,
Speak of merit yes yes all 20 you name,
And since you can’t get everyone,
From the gate you turn
"Sing a bird"
Bridesmaids meet the groom on the threshold and say:
"What kind of groom do you have?
Is it not pockmarked or curved?
Is there power in him?
Does his voice ring?
Come sing us about the bride, about her beauty and become,
And let the friends not be silent,
Choir let them shout with you "
The groom should sing loudly about his love, he can use existing songs or just come up with it. Maybe he just shout loudly with his friends about his love for the girl.
Perky script for a wedding to buy a bride in the stairwell
The ransom scenario involves several contests that take place all the way to the bride, starting from the entrance and ending with the door to her room. It all starts with the entrance:
- In advance, the girlfriends tie a thread between the doors of the access door. It can not be torn or pass under it, in general it can not be touched. The groom must figure out how to overcome the obstacle, or pay a fine. One of the correct answers would be to burn the thread;
- Immediately after the door on the wall of the entrance it is necessary to attach the drawing paper with a large lock painted. Stickers should be placed on the lock so that little men are drawn on their hidden side and only one of them has a pair. Guests must tear off the leaves and find a pair, in case of failure - fine.
Then the procession approaches the stairs leading to the floor. Here, too, have their own tasks:
- A paper letter should be placed on each step, and the bridegroom should compliment her contracted letter on each letter;
- Each flight of stairs should contain a heart on which the reason for the wedding will be indicated: settlement, hunger, clean socks are out, mom will not allow home without grandchildren and others. If the young spouse does not agree with the reason - he must pay. Place the heart with the correct answer should be only on the last flight in front of the apartment of the bride;
- On one of the stairs to place on the stairs hearts of different colors, stepping on the step with red - you have to praise the bride, with blue - to scold. There is a secret how to overcome the ladder quickly - a friend should carry on the hands of a young man;
- Putting paper steps on the steps with questions, the groom must answer correctly or pay for it.
Questions may be different:
- day of acquaintance (date and day of the week);
- place of acquaintance;
- bride's shoe size;
- Waist;
- full name of mother in law;
- birthday of the father-in-law and mother-in-law;
- favorite flowers of the bride;
- favorite color favorite;
- favorite season of the bride;
- What will be the priority for the wife: family or work;
- how many children the bride wants;
- what a favorite lesson the bride had.
On the staircase of the bride, the forecaster or bridesmaid also prepares tasks:
- Glue marks to the apartment, the groom, advancing in them, must say what kind of household chores he will perform. The penalty will be if the guy goes around the tracks or can not come up with a case. To ensure that guests are paid, it is worth sticking a mark on a wall or door;
- Around the door leading to place a garland of balls and in each ball to put a piece of paper. All pieces of paper are empty and only on one - the inscription "key". The procession must find the right ball and only then get the key to the apartment. By tradition, a mistake is a fine;
- But the key to the apartment is also not easy to get, because it is frozen in advance in an ice cube, and friends should warm it with palms or lips;
- Opening the door, the groom finds 10 ribbons tied in the aisle. For each tape, a witness should state one positive quality of the groom.
In the apartment itself, the groom also expects several tasks. The path to the bride will not be easy:
- Girlfriend greets guests in the hallway with a tray. The groom should put on the name of his lover on the diarrhea using coins or bills;
- The next girlfriend is holding a daisy with tear-off petals. Each petal contains a number that means something to the pair. The groom must explain all the numbers. You can take as an example the date of acquaintance, the time of their first date, the waist size or the size of the bride's shoes, the number of best friends, the height or weight of the bride, the number of invited guests. For each failure, buddies must pay with money;
- The bride's father meets the groom and offers him 3 glasses. In one - sweet water, in the second vodka, and in the third bitter water. The groom must drink all three. With what facial expression he drinks, so they will live together. Therefore, if the bridegroom suddenly grimaced, he must justify it with a cash present to the future test;
- The bride's mother holds a glass of water on the tray, while the groom must fill it with coins, so that the water flows through the top. How much water to pour, decides the future mother-in-law;
- There are three shoes in front of the room with the bride, the groom must guess the shoes of his bride. And it does not have to be bridal shoes, there can be sneakers, and home slippers;
- Before the door, the groom will have to sing a song to his bride or shout loudly with his boyfriends about how he loves her. Only then will the door open slightly.
Already in the room, the groom sees the table at which his bride sits, but her girlfriends are sitting next to her in such a way that there is no possibility to approach her. Therefore, the groom has to pay again. Girlfriends shout to him to put a bill on every corner of the table and only then will they let him go.
But when the groom puts the money, they can shout “Not enough! Not enough! Put more!” The path to the bride is opened only when the girlfriends are satisfied with the sums.
Developing a script, you should think over all the details in advance and prepare props.
Also, one should not delay the ransom too much, because long contests and a large number of them may tire not only the bride and groom, but also the guests themselves.
But having spare tasks on hand is sometimes useful, because when the bride’s fees are slightly delayed, and the groom has already arrived, you can gain more time by conducting additional tasks. And, of course, you should warn the friends and the groom in advance about contests and the required coins and bills.
And some more original ideas about the bride price are in the next video.
