Most often, the male sex is more straightforward in their desires and actions than the female. Unlike girls, men do not send hints, do not flirt and do not sly, but do what they want and what they feel at the moment.
But still, many guys in love know the feeling of shyness and fear of taking the first step. But for girls, at the same time, it is very interesting to know - what kind of feelings does the guy feel for her, are they mutual?
And the guys who are already in a relationship are often very stingy with emotions. And it is difficult to understand what they want. Maybe the relationship has become obsolete, and it's time to part?
Or, on the contrary, the guy decided to settle down and move on to a more serious stage in the relationship? This article will reveal a few male secrets and talk about the signs with which you can understand the true motives of the guy.
How do you know if a guy wants to kiss you?
The first kiss between a guy and a girl is a very exciting moment, meaning a lot. From the anticipation of a kiss, the heart begins to beat more often, dizzy. Most often, this moment occurs at the end of the date, when the guy escorts the girl home and the moment of farewell comes. But everything will happen, maybe in a different situation.
It so happens that it seems clear that the girl likes the guy. He gives her signs of attention: caring, making compliments. Perhaps they already went on a date.
But the kiss never happens. What is the problem? The guy is too shy or not understand their feelings? These thoughts can torment a girl for a long time, forcing her to doubt herself.
There are several signs by which you can recognize if the guy wants to kiss his boyfriend or not?
- Sight. If a young man stares at a date, looks at his lips and face, often looks into his eyes - this clearly confirms his intentions. In order not to scare him away, you should respond to the look in the eyes and smile;
- Movement. It is psychologically proved that a sympathetic person copies the movements of the person to whom he is drawn. In addition, because of constraint, they will be a bit constrained;
- Touches The guy who wants to end the date with a kiss will try to go out on a tactile contact: touch his hand, hug, sit closer.
If a guy behaves in a similar way on a date or just at a joint pastime, then, most likely, he wants to get a kiss.
Most likely, he will be worried. Too confident behavior is peculiar to more women workers than guys who are in love. In order not to scare him away and give a positive signal, one should respond to his gaze and not deviate when he approaches his lips with his lips.
How to determine what the guy wants you
It would seem that in this matter men are as straightforward as anyone else. But it is not. Relations between people are not always at such a close level that they can openly declare their desires. You may just be friends or colleagues. But how then to understand what the guy wants you?
- Sight. As in the case of a kiss, the look gives out all the emotions of a man. If he lustfully looks at a woman, studies her body, "strips eyes" - he definitely wants her. In addition, his pupils at the same time will be very dilated, occupying almost the entire iris of the eye. After all, everyone knows that our pupils dilate when we look at what we really like;
- Gestures. When a man sees a woman who he considers sexually attractive, his hands give out. He begins to touch his nose (surprisingly, the nerve endings in the nose and erection are connected) or to keep them in the groin area (pull the belt, insert your thumbs into the pockets);
- Vote. In an excited state, the guys have a lower voice - it becomes low, velvety, deep;
- Physical signs. When a guy wants a girl, his breathing and heartbeat increase. Breathing becomes hard, and cheeks may even turn red;
- Touch. If all his thoughts are focused on the passion for the girl's body, he will try in every way to get in touch with him. Touch, hug, stroke by the shoulders, straighten the loose strand of hair.
How to understand what the guy wants: a serious relationship or just sex?
In a relationship between a man and a woman, strange games take place. Ideally, everyone is honest with themselves and with each other. But some begin to deceive. And instead of finding a girl who wants only sex and satisfy common needs, they start playing in love with a naive fool just to use her trust in the end.
In order not to be in the status of a deceived sheep, one should learn to recognize the true desires of a guy.
So what distinguishes a young man, aimed at a serious relationship from someone who needs only sex?
- Speech A man who does not count on relationships behaves somewhat theatrically, says what a woman wanted to hear. His compliments are too correct and beautiful, they do not have a certain amount of naivety or awkwardness. And he can also start singing songs about how much he needs relationships and love almost from the first date;
- Attention. He does not want to delve into your experiences, problems and emotions, communicating only on superficial topics. He also talks little or little about himself, his childhood, his family and his experiences;
- Narcissism. Yes, he does not talk about personal and important moments from his life. But he likes to sing the praises to himself: his success, beauty, wealth. In the course can go stories about what all the girls are bad: throwing him, cheating and betraying;
- Jointly spent time. Such a guy does not want to spend his free time with a girl, to share interests. Dating definitely will not take place in theaters or cinema, and even more so there will be no acquaintance with his or your family.
How to understand that the guy wants to end your relationship?
Unfortunately, it happens that a person who decides to leave is still in a relationship for some time, gathering his strength to take this step. The second half is in pink glasses, and then remains at the broken trough. How to understand in advance that the guy is no longer interested in this relationship, and he is going to leave?
- Distance. Perhaps the first and most basic feature. The distance is manifested in everything. The guy no longer wants to spend time together, more important for him is a walk with friends. He has many secrets, and he does not tell where he is and with whom;
- Communication No more heart-to-heart talk, mutual understanding, and in general, it seems that you are strangers to each other;
- Touches, sex. A man whose feelings are cold will not want any more hugs, kisses and sex. And even if sex is, it will become more routine and mechanical, for the sake of satisfying needs, and not manifesting feelings;
- Communication with other girls. Flirt and communication with others suggests that the guy already feels as if he is free and does not care about your feelings.
How to understand that the guy wants to start a family and make you an offer?
When the girl and the boy have been in a serious relationship for a long time, they begin to think about how to go to the next level and take such a serious step as marriage. But for some reason, some men do not want to ask their beloved a cherished question.
In this case, the girls begin to worry and think about whether everything is in order. But there are several signs that make it possible to understand that a man is ready for a shared future and will soon make an offer.
- Joint plans. If a man sincerely, with trepidation and excitement, talks about your future home and children. About how the future home will be equipped, how to raise children properly, what they will look like and so on. Because of some stereotypes, people think that such words are peculiar only to women. But it is not. A man in love who wants to settle down and get married will not be ashamed of such reasoning;
- His friends are family people. Tell me who your friend is and I will tell you who you are. You should not naively hope that the guy whose friends like to go to clubs, drink and talk about the night with another girl, he himself is very different from them. But if his friends are married, with a positive example of the family, it means that he will soon decide to create his own;
- He behaves seriously, invests in the future. A man who is ready for a family will do everything for your joint well-being. He will be interested in issues of work, home improvement, meeting with parents. If a guy runs with friends on a spree, can not find a job, communicates with other girls - his intentions are definitely not serious.
In conclusion, we can say that you should not look at a man through the prism of rose-colored glasses or in a fit of euphoria. Female intuition is a very strong thing. If it fails, it is very rare. You should always listen to your feelings and sensations and then it will become clear what plans a man who is next to you.
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