Sex life for a woman is just as important as for a man. But it’s very difficult to get away from your everyday troubles and tune in to the romantic style. There are a lot of solutions to this problem, and the most popular ones will be discussed in our article.
Why is it important to be able to be excited and have fun
Unfortunately, most of the representatives of the beautiful half of humanity can not ignore the everyday hustle and bustle of the accumulated problems. And this does not happen even while making love.
Our women are constantly worried about something: for children, for husband, for parents, for loved ones and even for work. They do not give themselves the opportunity to just relax and have fun, and their partner too.
To answer the question of why it is so important to be able to be excited, it is worth considering the psychological and physiological aspects of the problem. The female physiology is this: at the time of the blood rush to the female genital organs, the muscles relax, while the uterus produces a clear fluid (secret) with increased intensity. It was she who moisturizes the vagina.
Psychology in women is somewhat more complicated. To really get pleasure, the representative of the beautiful stat needs to completely forget about all her problems and hardships, translating her mood into positive and romantic manners. Here you must connect the imagination and all your wildest desires.
Unfortunately, not all men are able to set up their partner in the desired fashion. That is why the woman is recommended to take the reins in their hands. And how you can do it yourself, talk further.
How to learn to be excited before sex: tips
The situation with the question of self-excitation can be easily resolved on your own. But for this it is well understood that the matter is in the brain. And if during sexual intercourse you constantly think about something else, you can forget about orgasm.
Sexually mood can be dispelled because of thoughts about cooking dinner, preparing children for school, problems and difficulties at work and much more. The process of self-excitation is completely dependent on your ability to get rid of stereotypes.
Although there is one more thing: some women identify having sex with something dirty and indecent. But in this case it is simply contraindicated to show restraint in frank conversations and sexual positions.
Do not refuse to experiment in this area, be constantly open to new things and never close in yourself. Catch every moment and enjoy making love.
A few tips on how to get excited:
- To begin with, it is recommended to do the preparation of your brain and body. To do this, you can fantasize a little and imagine the various candid scenes. This is not necessarily a bed. Think of how it could be in a boring library, just on the way home, somewhere in a dark alley. Just try to taste the pleasure that awaits you. It is important to hone your fantasy skills. Feel the taste of red wine on your lips, which you will soon be able to drink with your partner. Now you can begin to prepare the body. Massage yourself in the place where you would like your loved one to caress you. Do it the way you would like to. Think only about your pleasure.
It is better to wear sexy underwear. You can watch an erotic film and follow its recommendations. Keep a special book with pictures in your home library. This will also help in the visualization of their fantasies. - If the method described above did not help, you can refer to the use of special pathogens. They can be purchased at any pharmacy or on the pages of Internet portals. The most popular are Viagra, or Pfizer or generics (for example, Kamagra). With the help of these drugs you will be able to achieve the desired effect in the shortest possible time. Terms: Generics are those drugs that, by their effect, completely replicate already existing certified medicinal products, but at an affordable price. This unique tool will increase blood flow to the pelvic area, contributing to the appearance of a secret in the vagina. Orgasm will be different strength and enchantment. And not least, these drugs will not harm your body.
- Frigidity is not the end. You can try an erotic massage or watch an outright movie. If such methods do not help, it is recommended to contact a psychotherapist. There is nothing wrong with that. And after a few sessions, you can feel different. Conducted psycho-erotic training under the supervision of a specialist, will help to find the erogenous zones of women. And then, it is their stimulation and engage.
It is better to wear sexy underwear. You can watch an erotic film and follow its recommendations. Keep a special book with pictures in your home library. This will also help in the visualization of their fantasies.
What most excites a woman
Most women love the ears. Therefore, a skillful compliment from the beloved, and the "case in the hat."
It is the brain that is beautiful to be considered the most sexual organ of a man.
But we are all individual. And before you overeat, tell stories and write out compliments, you should prepare well. It is important to understand what your partner wants to hear.
How to excite yourself very much and how to do it
It will not be news for anyone that the process of self-excitation is difficult to regulate and control. That is why it is very important to know how you can get excited very quickly and adapt to the desires of your partner.
Comfort
It is very difficult for a beautiful article to be instantly excited in the absence of comfortable and intimate-friendly conditions. Therefore, it is important to approach with special attention to the preparation of the room, where it is supposed to make love. For example:
- if the room is very cold, it is even difficult to imagine that it is necessary to bare. It is recommended to take care of the warmth of the room, put heaters or light a fireplace, if there is one;
- cleanliness and freshness of bed linen is very important for women. Indeed, during the making of love, such a clean and special moment, I would not like to darken everything with dirty sheets. It is even somehow not hygienic. Dirty and spontaneous sex is more of a male element;
- beautiful stats need to take a shower and feel well-groomed and clean. Especially if the meeting takes place after work, and you will not have to call home. Tune up in an intimate mood is very difficult in the sense of impurity. And the very shaving of the legs, most often a ritual for the woman, rather than the demands of men.
Important! For an excellent article, comfort and safety are most often needed.
This is the strong of this world want risk and extreme.
In this case, most women simply succumb to the impulses of their partners, rather than wish it themselves.
The girl is afraid to be "caught hot". And in the end, she just wants to relax and not worry about anything.
The right attitude
A woman is most often excited by the “head” rather than tactile caresses. An experienced man always knows what to do.
He brings down on his partner a lot of compliments, from which she forgets about everything. Whereas you can get excited yourself with the help of an erotic film and even suitable music. What do you like, pornography or erotic, the choice is yours.
Special entourage
For women, much lies in the details. Therefore, some items may resemble and be associated with a beautiful article with good sex.
Some prefer to just light the candles.
Hot bath
In this case, a very explainable mechanism works. Excitement is a certain rush of blood to the female genital organs.
And hot water actively contributes to this, especially if you decide to take a bath with your beloved.
But! Experts strictly prohibit making love in hot water. It adversely affects the heart. Better time to move to another place. And nice and harmless.
Pheromone Perfume
For anybody not new, that some flavors can enhance sexual desire. And if a man uses such perfume, his partner as soon as possible will be excited.
Moreover, there are even aromatic oils that contain the pheromones we need, for example, ylang-ylang.
But this method is very individual and you should not get used to it. And for some women, it does not work at all.
Alcoholic drinks
A little alcohol can always relax and set up a woman in the desired fashion. But in this case you can not overdo it. One or two glasses of red wine or fifty grams of something stronger.
Otherwise, the head will start to spin, sensitivity will decrease, and even to a dream can pull. And we need it?
Important! None of the drugs will never help arouse. Their action is rather the opposite, and such a state is unnatural.
How to get a woman excited quickly: drugs
There is a huge amount of special preparations that will help a woman quickly get horny. But note that this remedy will act correctly only when the appropriate circumstances occur.
About them we spoke earlier. Plus, a beautiful article should have a regular intimate life. Even if you really want it and your loved one is there, it’s not a fact that you’ll get excited quickly. Conversely, girls who do not experience a lack of love activities can quickly and easily tune in to the desired mood.
List of the most popular drugs:
- "Cialis" - a drug that helps to enhance blood flow to the female genital organs and greatly enhances the chances of getting an orgasm;
- "Women's Viagra" - these are pills developed exclusively taking into account the female body, effectively working during menopause and with insufficient production of lubricant in the genital area;
- "Laverone" - a drug based on natural ingredients that activates the nervous, cardiovascular and endocrine systems.
How to increase sexual desire
- variety in sex. It is important not to allow making love to be monotonous. Bring in your love life a little adrenaline and experimentation. For example, try to have sex in the most inappropriate and unusual places;
- open up a little with your partner. New cheeky thoughts and fantasies will surely help increase your libido;
- Proper food also helps to solve many problems, and even intimate. Pay attention to aphrodisiac products. It can be seafood, most often clams, oysters and salmon.
There are many ways to get a woman excited very quickly. To do this, you need to constantly experiment, and find more and more new options for how to adjust yourself in an erotic way. Dare! It's worth it!
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