How to compliment a girl about her beauty and other virtues

Everyone knows that men love with their eyes, but girls love their ears. The fair sex love attention from men and praise. In some ways, ladies are like cats. Listening to the pleasant speech of a man addressed to them, they “purr” from pleasure, but it is worth saying one reckless and tactless compliment, a woman becomes as aggressive as a panther.

Mastering such a difficult ability to make the right compliments is not easy. But everyone can learn. After all, the most important rule is that the compliment should come from the heart.

The importance of compliments and tips on serving

Compliments, said on time, have great power. They are able not only to interest the girl, but also to reconcile the couple during a quarrel, to give the lady faith in herself, to diversify gray days. Many men notice how, after just a few pleasant words, their companion has a sparkle in their eyes. That is why just a few compliments can make a woman happy. But it is important to know what to say and say from the heart.

All compliments can be divided into several types.

1. In the form of comparison. For example, "You always get an excellent look, but for this I need to exert maximum effort."
2. Soul. It is very important that the man periodically tells his beloved woman about his feelings: "You are my dream, my dear, only you always support me."
3. Concerning her personal space. Here you can talk about her interests, hobbies or work: "You are so smart and you are interested in everything! I don’t understand how you only find so much time and energy for this."
4. Statement of fact. Compliments of this kind can be used in the early stages of dating, when you still have little information about her: "Wow! Gorgeous hairstyle, have you been to a beauty salon? Do you have a beautiful slim figure, do you play sports?"
5. Poetic. Here you can compare the lady with the mythical or literary character: "You are my Aphrodite!". In some cases, a proud darling can be subdued with a similar phrase: "I will take a picture of your eyes and put it on my desk to look at a clear blue sky every day."

But do not forget that women's intuition is highly developed, so the lady will feel the catch if compliments are showered too often. They should be unexpected. Otherwise, she will alienate you from herself, since her insincerity will alert her.

It is important to remember that after the compliment, it is better to immediately change the topic of conversation. Transfer the conversation to another direction, even if it seemed to you that she did not remember and did not have time to react. Ladies always remember both pleasant and unpleasant words. Let the pleasant word be said by the way.

Most of all, girls love compliments about their appearance, since before the meeting they always spend hours in front of the mirror, trying to look stunning. All these procedures: pedicure, manicure, make-up and hairstyle - take a lot of time and effort. Therefore, the ladies always hurt if their efforts are not appreciated by male attention.

But before you give a compliment, carefully consider the phrase. After all, very often men, without thinking, make mistakes. Here are the most common:

1. Ambiguity: "This blouse is very slim you." Such words can be offensive to the girl. Also do not say: "You are such a donut, I like these." Such phrases will simply become an insult.
2. Compliments of an instructive nature are also a serious mistake. For example: "You have very beautiful, slim legs, why do not you wear short skirts?". Phrases of this type cannot be spoken if you are not familiar with a girl.

How to say compliments to a girl in your own words

Girls feel the catch, especially if you constantly say something that has long been invented by someone.

But if you try to say it in your own words, it will sound sincere and very sweet.

So, what rules should be remembered to make compliments in your own words:

1. A compliment must be true first of all for you. To convince a lady of your sincerity, you yourself must believe in it.
2. Always show respect. Then you do not insult and upset her. After all, if you truly respect this person, then whatever you say will be a good compliment.
3. Imagine yourself in her place and think what you would feel after the words you are going to say. Consider whether it is appropriate to say this or that compliment at this stage of your communication.
4. Time must be suitable. The most convenient time is when the subject of something you can praise is touched upon in conversation. It is also important to combine this with the situation in which you are located. After all, sometimes the praise can even become unpleasant and humiliating, for example, you praised her appearance after she gave a presentation or a presentation. Instead, it is better to emphasize her clear intellect and how correctly she composed everything.
5. Praise can be expressed in actions, for example, if she has just worked hard on something, then instead of words, just give her a relaxing back massage. You can also make dinner, bring coffee to bed and more. After all, such actions will be a prelude option for an oral compliment. But in this case you can do this if you have known each other for a long time.

It is important to learn to respectfully accept rejection. Girls may not respond to your compliments as you would expect. No need to think, let alone tell her, that she was conceited. Otherwise, she will think that you said pleasant only for the sake of gain. Instead, say that she does not have to believe you, but you sincerely hope that she will someday understand that your words are sincere.

The list of phrases that turn her head

Here are some of the most pleasant compliments to the fair sex. From the list, you can choose, focusing on the duration of your acquaintance.

1. "Meeting you turned my life upside down."
2. "You are able to fascinate and give inspiration."
3. "Despite such a young age, you are pretty clever and smart! This is commendable."
4. "It seems to me that you are capable of much, even save the world with its beauty."
5. "I see you for the first time, but I have the feeling that I have known you for ages, you are beautiful."
6. "So nice to see a princess in real life!".

Best beautiful compliments

Not everyone can come up with beautiful compliments to the girl on the go. After all, it takes time. Therefore, it is better to stock up on a couple of compliments in advance so as not to lose face in front of your chosen one.

Short

1. "My moon in the night!".
2. "Charming, do not take your eyes off!".
3. "Your beauty is worthy of a golden crown!".

Favorite

1. "See the sun in the sky? Know that your smile shines much brighter."
2. "You warm my soul."
3. "You look as irresistible as always! You are my star!"
4. "Being near you a minute is more precious than eternity without you."

It's easier for your girlfriend to come up with everything in your own words, because you already meet with her and know her well.

The girl in the photo

1. "That would only print, and in the frame!".
2. "In this photo you look real, and that says a lot."
3. "In this photo I see not a man, but an angel."
4. "It is impossible to take your eyes off your beauty!".

In verse

Praise in verse is inherent in creative individuals. Therefore, it should be spoken to those who appreciate it.

Your linen hair
I can, the goddess, to stroke infinitely.
Your beauty is pure and perfect,
Dizzy like strong wine.

Desirable and passionate
Airy, beautiful!
Strict, playful,
My unique!

The letter A

1. Absolutely unpredictable.
2. Angelic beautiful.
3. Ambitious.
4. Appetizing.
5. Artistic.

Cool

It is important to understand that they are better said if you know each other well.

1. "You're just a cupcake!"
2. "You are graceful and small ... chihuahua nervously smokes on the sidelines."
3. "You sneeze so cute, just like a hedgehog!".
4. "Tell me, how can you have such a figure at this age?"

SMS compliments

SMS compliments give a smile from a distance.

1. "I have not met more beautifully than you and I know for sure that I will not meet again."
2. "The usual words for an unusual girl - you're beautiful!".
3. "When thinking of you, time slows down its pace."

When making compliments, it is important to take into account many factors, the main of which are: the degree of your acquaintance, under what circumstances you want to make pleasant. You should always get to know each other better. Then the compliments will break out of your mouth.

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