How to attract the attention of the guy you like

What should a girl do if there is a guy in her circle who really likes, but doesn’t pay attention to her at all? Such situations occur frequently.

Correct the situation is possible, but for this it is necessary to make some effort. Following a series of simple tips, it will turn out not only to attract attention, but also to establish a closer relationship, and not so far from friendship to love.

Effective ways to attract the guy you like.

If you look at typical tips from magazines and the Internet, then judging by public opinion, the only thing that is required of a girl is makeup, heels and bright outfits. But how many are around.

Modern guys, especially cute, are just tired of such a hunt for them. It is necessary to appear this in the company, as the girls try to outdo each other with outfits, fashionable make-ups and high heels, without any hesitation that appearance is important, but brute force is unacceptable here.

Yes, and such rivalry simply depersonalized. Therefore it is worth choosing a different approach. Consider in more detail how to attract the attention of a guy in other ways.

  1. You are not only beautiful, but also interesting. Before you start to win the attention of a guy it is worth knowing what he is interested in and keen on. Support the conversation about the music, argue about the choice of videos, tell me a good route for a bike ride, and he will set you apart from the general company. But any advice and opinions should be reasonable, so you have to learn at least minimally to understand what you are talking about.
  2. Maintain communication. In order for the guy to want to communicate with you all the time, it is not enough just to make eyes and smile. You should have common interests and points of contact. But it is not necessary to reshape yourself to his taste. Individuality must remain. Therefore, instead of admiring his favorite rock band implicitly, you can surprise with your knowledge in the field of music and tell something interesting, for example, funny or curious cases that happened to famous performers.
  3. Ask for help. Guys love to feel strong and meaningful. If he is keen on sports, ask for help in choosing a bike, if in music - headphones, if he is interested in gadgets - a new smartphone or tablet. In general, you need to find a reason to go shopping with him in search of the right model. And then you will find well-deserved rest in a cafe, hardly anyone refuses to rest for a cup of tea after such a marathon. It is then that you can continue to communicate, and even plan a new meeting.

Do not be afraid to be yourself and less unnatural grimaces. The freer the girl behaves, the easier it is to communicate with her. In no case do not need to copy the behavior of teleactris and other public figures who do not have a release from the gentlemen. It will look ridiculous.

How to attract the attention of a former guy

First of all, it is necessary to decide whether it really is necessary. The renewal of relations is not always successful. If it is necessary, you should use two time-tested methods, indifference and jealousy.

Indifference - this does not mean a complete lack of emotion. It is worth behaving in the general company exactly and benevolently, as in relation to the friend and no more.

And no hint of the past. If he is with his companion, there is no need to reveal ill will towards her, you can even make a compliment to her along with or accessories. This will already go beyond the typical behavior of girls, which will immediately attract attention.

Jealousy is also a very effective tool, especially if the feelings on his part have not cooled. Enough to appear in the company with a new guy, and the attention of the former is provided.

And if you still behave like a couple, that is, to give each other signs of attention, but without frank busting, he, of course, will be jealous and not take his eyes off you. But do not get too carried away, sensual kisses to the public or outright stroking - this is not what you need for a girl.

So the former is more likely to make sure of your availability, and not that you have a new relationship.

How to attract a guy at school or by correspondence on social networks

At school, attention is easiest. The main point of contact is learning, and ideally, if it is stronger in some subjects.

So how can you get the attention of the guy you like at school? The easiest way - you can ask him for help. And during classes it costs nothing to talk about hobbies and find an interesting topic for you.

After class, you can offer to take a walk or look at the cafe. To be embarrassed that you invite it first, it is not worth it, now a completely different time and shyness is not the best quality for a girl.

To interest a guy in social networks is much more difficult. With personal communication, you can see his reaction, but in this case you will have to focus only on his answers in correspondence.

First of all, you should carefully examine its page, especially saved videos, music and photos. Also important are reposts and statuses. It is possible to determine his emotional state.

Then everything is like in person, we find common interests or topics on which you can keep up the conversation and write the first message. It can be as banal “Hello, how are you”, and comments to the status or post on the wall.

But before you draw attention to yourself in this way, you should pay attention to your page.

A few crosses with similar themes, interesting photos and music that he likes as well, will increase the chances that he will support the dialogue.

Grabbing a guy with a conspiracy

Few people believe in conspiracies now, but for good reason. It is worth remembering the stories of our grandmothers and mothers, then there were much more strict customs and the fact that now it’s acceptable for ordinary girls, for example, to speak first and admit their liking, then was the height of indecency.

In those days, completely different methods were used, which may now seem irrelevant. But even in the modern world conspiracies remained in circulation. Modern girls attract the attention of guys with the help of conspiracy rarely, but still sometimes resort to this method. The main thing is to understand consciously what you are doing.

The easiest conspiracy to recite at full moon:

As the grass tends to the ground by the wind, so let the servant of God (name) let me tend to,
As the grass dries without rain, so he let me dry,
As the grass comes to life in the sun, so let him be near me well.

These words should be spoken in the light of the moon, it is advisable to stand so that it fully illuminates the entire figure.

When plotting, you need to imagine a guy in maximum detail, think about him and not be distracted. You need to pronounce it three times.

Another conspiracy on the candle. The rite must be held after midnight. For this you need to put in front of you a photo of a guy, and in front of a photo - a lighted candle. Need to say, looking at the photo through the flame of a candle.

I will say your name - you will hear,
I'll dream you - you will remember
I will appear before you - you will see
I will call you - you will come.

This is the most simple conspiracy to attract the attention of a guy, but if you wish, you can find other ceremonies, more complicated.

How to behave if a guy tries to get attention

Often girls are lost if the guy starts to give them signs of attention. You should not do this, especially if you already like him. But you do not need to immediately fall into euphoria and show delight. This, of course, will raise his self-esteem, but may significantly understate yours in his eyes.

The line of conduct is quite simple, attention, friendliness and a little bit of flirting. Just need to show that you are interested in the guy, and you are not averse to communicate with him further.

But to distribute advances and builds immediately far-reaching plans are not necessary, it can simply scare off the potential cavalier.

It is worth giving the initiative in his hands. Let him feel a little conqueror.

Of course, guys like active girls, but this does not mean that you need to go on a date or drag him to the movies. Do not forget that despite the current trends, it is still the prerogative of men.

When communicating, listen more and talk less. The guys do not like too talkative, and it is unlikely that he would be interested to listen to arguments on topics that are not close to him.

Therefore, we delve into and study the interlocutor, and then we begin to build a general conversation on topics that are interesting to him and you.

Rules of first communication and advice of psychologists

  1. Quite often, when they first communicate, girls start to behave unnaturally, mistakenly assuming that normal behavior will be inappropriate. Just the opposite is true; any unnaturalness will be inappropriate, so all the advice from fashion magazines or publics should be used taking into account the situation and more than moderately.
  2. The most common advice is to smile more. But this does not mean that all the communication time you need to show your lovely teeth. A conversation can be on quite serious topics, and a constant smile here will be absolutely useless. It is necessary to smile, but only when approval or encouragement is expressed in this way.
  3. Talking about yourself is also worth it, but again, in moderation. Constant chatter about trifles is simply annoying, so you should limit yourself to the main, how you learn, what you get carried away with, what your parents do, how you spend your free time and so on. Do not forget to listen to the interlocutor, he also wants to speak and tell about himself.
  4. Many ladies' websites recommend using body language and feel free to demonstrate its most attractive aspects. But again, it all depends on the situation. Sitting in a cafe you can easily embarrass a guy with a demonstration of his legs or a neckline, because not only will he see the demonstration. And shy guys it can simply scare away.
  5. The same can be said about outfits. Do not show more than you need, leave room for imagination. Too frank clothing suggests certain conclusions, and they are not talking about the best sides of the girl.

To attract the attention of a guy is not as difficult as it seems. To do this, it is worth being natural, benevolent, and have common points of contact with it.

If there is something to talk about and what to discuss, half the work has already been done.

Then it will be enough just to warm the attention, look for new topics that are interesting to both of you, and spend more time together, first in the company, and then in private. If a guy is bored without you, then everything turned out, and you can count on more than friendship.

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